It’s an old familiar hum:

Every January, we kickoff the calendar year with New Years Resolutions: lose 10 pounds, make smarter investments, create an extra $1,500 per month on the side.

Yet by February, we’ve returned to life as usual. The discarded New Years Resolution has become a tired cultural trope.

We blame ourselves for these failures:

  • “I should work harder.”
  • “I should be more disciplined.”
  • “I should stop procrastinating.”

But what if we’re approaching this in the wrong way? What if goal-setting itself is the problem?

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Society says goal-setting is as integral to life as food, sleep, and arguing with your GPS.

“Dammit, Siri, I can’t turn left! That’s a one-way street!”

I’ve set countless goals over the years; I’ve achieved some, fallen short at others, and exceeded a few. Yet I’ve also lived with constant, low-level anxiety about my ability to meet my own expectations.

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